Welcome to MOTHER &

If you felt your sole calling was schedules, wiping butts, and chasing imaginary gold stars of being a “good mom”…you wouldn’t be here ;)

MOTHER & is for the woman who’s in her #momlife era and her #morealive era.

If you’re here, you know raising babies and becoming the FULLEST most sizzlin’, full-range, litty in the titties version of you can co-exist. You are so DONE pretending you’re only one thing. *Snoooooze.*

You’re ready to meet the woman, the artist, the visionary, the witch, the lover, the chaos creature, and the truth-teller living underneath any single role.

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While you might enjoy your bougie, simple delights (*raises hand!*), you’re no basic mama. You don’t need another list of “toddler snack hacks” or the 12 things you must buy for “self-care.”

You want:
Meaning.
Magic.
Mischief (MWUAHAHA).
A baddie, nourishing community who gets it.
To deeply know yourself (in this season, cuz hiiii the feminine is constantly shifting + changing)
And to uncover the medicine you’re here to offer the collective (whether that’s only within your smaller bubble or with millions of strangers on the world wide web).

You want a space where motherhood isn’t the end of who you were…

…it’s the initiation to who you’re becoming.

That’s where MOTHER & comes in.

A companion for mothers who refuse to shrink.
A home for the “both/and” of your life.
A community of mothers walking their own unique paths together.
A place where matrescence isn’t something to survive—it’s something to get curious about, be witnessed in, and be shaped by (and maybe swear a lil bit about too, because you’re human after all.)

Why MOTHER & Exists

There’s no denying motherhood an ever shifting and spiraling journey.

Which is why MOTHER & exists.

Because…

I want a world where mothers aren’t left to navigate this initiation alone.
A world where women don’t have to lose themselves to be considered “good.”
A world where identity, truth, magic, desire, shadow, becoming, and collective care are woven into the story of motherhood—because they are inseparable.

I want a generation of mothers who celebrated for being a whole woman.
I want our daughters to grow up watching us expand, not disappear.
I want our sons to witness women who know themselves and devote themselves to their truth.
I want our communities to remember how to hold mothers, not just ask and take from them.

And I want every woman who crosses this threshold to know:
your becoming is not a detour, a nice-to-have some day, an inconvenience, or a guilty pleasure—it’s the medicine you, your babies, and the world have been waiting for.

We’re here for the full journey of matrescence—the identity rupture, the rebirth, the shadows you didn’t see coming, the desires you can’t shake, the lineage you’re untangling, and the community your soul has been begging for.

MOTHER & is…

Where you get to show up as the mother & everything else you are.
Where we talk about the things you have swirling in your brain at 3am but rarely say out loud.
Where your sassy, sweary, sacred, silly, sexy, soulful self is alllll welcome!

What You Can Expect

You’ll find:

✶ Long-form teachings pulled directly from my original $10K Transformational Arts Certification School—These are the behind-the-scenes frameworks, subconscious rewiring tools, somatic practices, emotional alchemy processes, and spiritual methodologies I once taught only inside a five-figure plus, application-only experience.

✶ “From The Diary of a Mother & _____” series. Aka my raw, real, completely unfiltered diary entries that I share with you not from a place of “knowing it all” or being an “expert”. But from being a real, live, complex, flawed and figuring-it-out Mother & [multi-passionate creative trying to find her thing in the world] [chaos gremlin] [chief magic maker of the fam] [worry wart] [wifey with infinite wants and needs]…etc. etc.

✶ Stories from mothers walking their own versions of this path. Because while yes, I looove sharing my own world, it’s not the only one. And there are SO many shades of motherhood out there. By getting glimpses into other mama’s lives, it’s my hope that you feel even more permission to pursue the path that makes YOU feel most alive in this stage of life.

✶ Rituals and seasonal practices to help you root into the present moment and the inner and outer season you’re in.

✶ Archetype maps and identity frameworks to name what’s shifting inside you. The Human Development and Pysch major and decade + coach in me can’t help but get giddy about creative frameworks and processes for helping you know yourself deeper.

✶ Reflections and prompts that bring you back to your truth. Cuz that’s what it’s all about, bb.

✶ Collective care invitations—ways to reconnect, contribute, and ask for support. BECAUSE WE AIN’T DOING THIS ALONE, K?! While your personal path is a unique lil snowflake, I pinky promise being on the path of motherhood and life is boring and lonely and akdfjasdjfksj. Even if you’ve prided yourself on being a lone wolf or “independent” we’re gonna drop that now. Interdependence is making a comeback. And it’s HOT.

Inside each edition you’ll meet your many selves and remember there’s no single way—only your path for this season.

And in walking that path—embracing your multidimensionality, telling the truth, stripping what’s not real, and following those tiny irresistible sparks—you become more you. And that becoming ripples outward—nourishing you, your babies, and the world in whatever intimate or expansive form your soul chooses.

About MOTHER & Founder, Lexi D’Angelo

Lexi is a mother of 2 (soon to be 3!), wifey, creative, writer, ritualist, guide, matcha-slurper, and mischief-making identity doula helping multidimensional mamas remember who the hell they are beneath the roles. She’s spent 13+ years coaching, facilitating, and guiding transformational work—and then motherhood said, “That was cute…now let’s REALLY begin.” 😜

Motherhood cracked her open, spit her out, and smirked as it invited her on a journey to find the truth of who she really is and what matters most to her.

Now she writes, creates, gathers, and coaxes mothers back to themselves—one truth, ritual, snort-giggle, and messy meltdown at a time.

You can find her playing on the gram over at @lexidangelo

A Note / Story With <3 From Lexi

I remember when my husband Jake and I were talking about having children in 2019…I was SO EFFING SCARED that my wildly “successful” 7-figure coaching business would collapse in the wake of becoming a mother.

I was OBSESSED with my business. It was my everything. My baby. I couldn’t imagine something taking me away from it…

And yet…as life sneakily does sometimes, your biggest fear comes true…

We ultimately decided to try to have a baby…and we did! Our perfect baby girl was born in January of 2022.

I figured I could just keep keepin’ on as I had prior to a baby though since I had an epic team and systems that would make big wig companies swoon.

But postpartum was ROUGH for me. I was NOT ok. And I was aching for someone to name what had happened to me—not just physically, but psychically, spiritually, soul-deep. I felt so fucking lonely, lost, confused, and empty. And no amount of numbing out with romantasy books, talks with my husband, or even alone time to work on my business could fix it.

A year postpartum I ended up shutting the doors to my coaching certification school.

I was left soaking in the liminal waters of who the hell am I now? The ego hits of being someone “important” in the industry were no more. And I had to really question who I was beyond titles and accomplishments and come to learn the truth at my core.

But the beauty of all this (which was hard to see in the thick of it, of course) was that matrescence peeled away (ok, it felt like a ripping and tearing and shredding) everything that wasn’t my TRUTH. All the superficialities, surface-level desires, etc. got taken away to reveal something deeper.

And thank effing God for that, because life has only become more rich, deep, meaningful, magical, and mischievous ;) mwuahaha!

I hope you’ll join me on this journey <3

Xx, Lex